St Francis of Assisi Primary School - Calwell
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Calwell ACT 2905
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From the Counsellor

How to be a good friend 

We all want our children to be able to connect with each other and form healthy friendships. But what happens when those friendship’s start to have problems? It can be hard for children to understand why their friends aren’t talking to them or playing the same games they used to, sometimes it is a matter of time and space and sometimes it can be the start of other friendship or peer issues.  

For some children, particularly those who are starting to experience problems or those who have questions about their friendships, it can be helpful for parents to be able to have a conversation about what a good friend is and how children can be good friends to one another. These can provide a basis of understanding for children, to help them to problem solve any potential issues within a friendship. Here are some suggestions for friendship rules to help start conversations between parents and children:  

  • Friends are kind to each other. 
  • Friends don’t talk about others behind their backs. 
  •  Friends let their friends be friends with other people. 
  •  When friends are upset with someone, they ask for space until they’re ready to talk calmly. 
  • If friends think someone is mad at them, they ASK what’s going on. 
  • Friends use “I” statements to talk about a problem and express how they are feeling. 
  • Friends listen to what other people have to say without arguing or interrupting. 
  • Friends take responsibility for their own behaviour 

Sharman Hampson

Student and Family Counsellor

CatholicCare Canberra & Goulburn